Posty Someone on the radio, in a different context, linked the two & I found it philosophically interesting. Thought I'd bring it up to see what happens.
No Suz, you two are married & that changes thge rules entirely.
The scenario I made up was, in a period of X months a woman has intercourse Y times with a Z different men. The odds of her becoming pregnant are reasonably low.
Similarly, you live on a street with Z number of people. X times per month, you randomly point a weapon out the door & fire Y times. The odds of hitting somebody is low, yet it exists.
"Getting pregnant was an accident" is as ridiculous a statement as I didn't mean to kill anybody, it was an acident".